STOP THE POWER STRUGGLES. END THE GUILT. BREAK THE CYCLE.
Is your child's defiance, backtalk and meltdowns running the show?
If the answer is "YES!" you are NOT a bad parent.
The honest truth is that you are likely dealing with damaging parenting myths that are keeping you stuck in toxic cycles with your kids.
Watch my 15 minute training below where I will show you the shocking truth about how traditional parenting is setting you up to fail and what you can do about it.
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Are Ready to Get More Peace By Doing Less?
Get 5X More Cooperation in just 2 Hours of Training Without Yelling Your Brains Out & Scarring Your Kids For Life!
Proven strategies created by a Positive Discipline Educator and Former Nanny that will show you how to turn power struggles into cooperation so you can get the respect, connection and confidence you deserve.
You love your kid more than anything but you are sick and tired of the screaming matches, endless battles and backtalk. You lay you in bed at night beating yourself up because you know you are repeating patterns from your own childhood you swore you would never repeat but you don't know what else to do.
If you are ashamed because your strong-willed kid is DEFIANT, DISRESPECTFUL & REBELLIOUS - I have news for you...
You just need a new toolbox with SIMPLE & EFFECTIVE strategies that actually work with highly sensitive, defiant and emotionally dysregulated kids AND gives you the tools you need to keep your cool when your kid loses theirs!
Meet the Creator, Evelyn Vieira
A Positive Discipline Educator, Trauma Specialist & Former Nanny
Hello, I'm so glad you are here:)
I was in your shoes not too long ago. I felt discouraged, hopeless & everything I tried to improve my kid's behavior made things worse.
Then I discovered a pattern in the tools that actually worked and I stopped focusing on the misbehavior. A magical thing happened - my stepdaughter's behavior transformed organically. Not because I was forcing, bribing or threatening her but because I had tapped into the true source of her defiance. Once I did that everything changed.
I want you to experience that magic with your child and so I put together The Defiance Disarming Toolkit where I will teach you how to master your messaging so your kids will want to cooperate without yelling, threatening or bribing.
It's not my opinion. These tools have the power to change your life. Hear from other parents who were struggling just like you...
Does this sound like your kid?
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ARGUES WITH EVERY REQUEST YOU MAKE
No matter how hard you try to ask nicely or be patient, your child is pushes back.
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TUNES YOU OUT & IGNORES YOU UNTIL YOU LOSE IT
You have to yell and repeat yourself a thousand times before they respond.
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MELTS DOWN, SHOUTS AND SLAM DOORS WHEN THEY DON'T GET THEIR WAY
Simple things turn into full blown power struggles & your confidence suffers.
Maybe you've tried traditional methods with no success...
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SETTING CONSEQUENCES & CLEAR EXPECTATIONS
But your kid doesn't care how severe the consequence & continues their disrespectful behavior.
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REWARD & STICKER CHARTS
Which only lasts a week and never amounts to any real change in behavior and you begin to feel hopeless.
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TIPS FROM PARENTING EXPERTS
Only to be overwhelmed by conflicting information that doesn't work. You've tried so many methods but nothing ever seems to change.
You continue to get stuck in the same cycles over and over again even though you are trying so hard to change. You know that what you are doing isn't working - but you don't know what else to do.
You feel lost, hopeless & stuck.
If this sounds familiar, I have some amazing news for YOU!
You AREN'T FAILING at this parenting gig like you might think!!
The truth is...
You were taught the wrong tools AND it's NOT your fault.
Here's some more good news...
TRADITIONAL PARENTING METHODS ARE SETTING YOU UP TO FAIL.
When kids act out, we are taught to:
Control their behavior - which only creates more defiance.
Punish and discipline until their behavior improves - but it never does.
Reward good behavior, punish bad behavior - which doesn't teach kids the life skills they need to problem solve, regulate their emotions or to be accountable for their actions.sf
All of these methods will actually INCREASE defiance and DECREASE cooperation with a highly sensitive kid and will make your job 10x harder than it needs to be.
You don't need to try harder. You don't need to read more parenting books or be more patient.
You are a good parent using a broken playbook.
The real reason nothing has worked to change your child's behavior is because the behavior isn't actually the problem. It's the symptom.
Nothing will change the behavior until you address what's driving the defiance. Once you understand how to talk so strong-willed kids will listen and cooperate, everything will change.
You just need a different toolbox. Let's get you one.
Don't allow broken parenting methods to sabotage you from the relationship you deserve to have with your kids. You and your kids deserve more than that.
NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE OR WHAT YOUR CHILDHOOD WAS LIKE, I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU HAVE THE POWER TO BREAK CYCLES THAT HARM and BUILD LEGACIES THAT HEAL. YOU JUST NEED TOOLS THAT WORK. LET'S GET YOU THE TOOLS NOW.
Imagine what your life could look like if you knew how to...
are you Ready to Disarm Defiance without yelling, threatening or bribing and Change Your Family's Story?
Introducing:
The Defiance Disarming Tool Kit
FOR PARENTS WHO WANT TO BREAK CYCLES, NOT KIDS.
A rebellious, trauma-informed proven system that will turn power struggles into partnership—without yelling, bribes, or shame.
In this training, you will learn:
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The Secret Phrase to Stop Power Struggles
Use a validating communication strategy to get your child to calm down and listen instead of argue.
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The Misbehavior
Mindset Shift
So you can stop focusing on symptoms and get to the root cause of the issues.
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Key Listening Blockers Keeping Your Kid From Hearing You
The real reasons why your kid is tuning you out and what you can do about it.
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60 Second Cooperation Hacks
Easy tips to get your kid to hear you so you can stop yelling, threatening and bribing, woohoo!
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The One Sentence Boundary Formula
So you can hold your kids accountable without being a doormat or a hardass.
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Defiance Disarming Scripts
Ten confidence boosting phrases that will decrease power struggles and increase cooperation.
This isn't theory. It's a practical, grab-it-and-use-it toolkit for real life with real kids with real triggers.
Tools That Work. Skills That Stick. Change That Lasts.
This training isn’t about broken kids or broken parents; it’s about broken methods that don't work.
What this program IS:
A step-by-step plan with easy to use methods!
Done-for-you cheatsheets, scripts & guides!
Easy 24/7 access to engaging mini lessons!
Community support and longterm solutions that create lasting change!
What this program is NOT:
Complicated parenting tactics that don't work.
A discouraging and judgmental approach.
A quick fix or magic pill to fix your kid.
Full of fluff and overwhelming information.
Long, boring lectures with lots of homework.
What You'll Walk Away With
A go-to script library for those moments when you yell, freeze or give in.
A clear, repeatable Disarming Defiance Framework you can use with your kid again and again.
A set of connection-first, dignity centered tools that teach skills instead of creating scars.
A calmer nervous system, fewer regrets at bedtime and a stronger, safer bond with your child.
Increased confidence and less self doubt and negative self talk.
A parenting roadmap that grows with your child, not against them.
What's Included in The Defiance Disarming Toolkit?
This training is designed to give you practical tools you can apply immediately, along with ready-to-use scripts for moments of backtalk, meltdowns, or power struggles so you can stop yelling and start connecting!
You don't need to be a perfect parent. You just need the right tools. Let's get you those.
Join other parents just like you who are getting great results...
This program is perfect for parents who have:
difficult kids
no parent training
codependency
kids ages 4-12 yrs
Negative self talk
lots of triggers
And are passionate about breaking generational cycles!
Specifically created for kids who disrupt the status quo.
It's time to break the cycle of reactive parenting and become the parent you've always wanted to be!
👉 Grab The Disarming Defiance Toolkit and get the skills, scripts, and support you need to turn chaos into connection and defiance into cooperation.
We change the playbook so good parents can build legacies that heal, not harm.
No more guessing. No more hating who you become when your child pushes back. Just clear steps, practical tools, and a new legacy starting with you.
Let's burn the old blueprint and build something better.
You can keep bracing for the next meltdown…
Or you can get a framework, a step-by-step guide with scripts and cheatsheet with real-world tools that actually made to fit your strong-willed kid.
See what other parents just like you are saying:
What makes this training different?
Other Programs Fail Because They:
Only focus on symptoms and DO NOT address the root cause of misbehavior.
Are are NOT trauma-informed or neurodivergent friendly.
Have too much confusing information with no real tools to use in the heat of the moment.
Require too much time, energy & homework to make progress.
Focus on fixing and controlling kids with sticker charts and rewards.
The Defiance Disarming Toolkit Works Because It:
Addresses the root cause of misbehavior.
Will give you Trauma-informed & neurodivergent friendly tools that work with your child.
Has Done-for-you cheatsheets, scripts and guides to tell you what to say in the heat of the moment.
Has bite-sized audio and video lessons for parents on the go.
Builds organic trust, respect & confidence with parents AND kids.
Are you ready to get off the struggle bus?
Let's Get You the Connection, Cooperation and Confidence You Deserve!
The Defiance Disarming Toolkit
For Families Who Want to Break Cycles, Not Kids
100% risk free - 30 day money back guarantee
Here's what you get:
Instant access to the training.
Done-for-you cheatsheets, guides and scripts to use in the heat of the moment.
Just under 2 hours of mini audio and video lessons for busy parents to access on the go.
Community support & monthly group coaching calls.
Total value: $297
Today Just $47 (save $250!)
This isn't gentle parenting. It's cycle-breaking, soul-reclaiming, legacy building work. It is rebellious healing and it changes everything.
I'm here to help you reclaim your power, find your voice, set healthy boundaries and rewrite your story. Let's do this!
If you’re ready to stop repeating patterns that don’t work and start parenting with more connection, confidence, and peace…
Click on the button below and let's get this party started!
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If you are not satisfied with The Defiance Disarming Toolkit within 30 days we will give you a full refund. No questions asked. You have nothing to lose!
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One time payment: $97
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Done-for-you cheatsheets, scripts and guides
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Done-for-you cheatsheets, scripts and guides
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STILL NOT SURE?
Check Out Our Frequently Asked Questions Below:
Don't see an answer to your question below? No problem - send an email to [email protected].
Question 1: I'm a busy parent, how much time will it take to get through this course?
I'm a busy parent too, I get it! This course is specifically made for busy parents to access on the go. You can get through the entire course in less than 2 hours and print pdf cheatsheets to use immediately. (There are six lessons and each lesson ranges from 5-25 minutes long.)
Question 2: How do I access the course?
You will receive an automated email with your log in credentials to access the course once payment is made.
Question 3: What if I get it and realize it's not for me or it doesn't work for my kid?
No problem! You have a full 30 days to try the course out and if it doesn't help you, just send an email to [email protected] and we will fully refund your money no questions asked.
Question 4: How much does it cost?
You have two options depending on your needs and goals.
Basic: Cheatsheets ONLY for $27 (one time payment)
Full Training: Cheatsheets & Video Training for $47 (one time payment)
Question 5: I have a ten year old and a 16 year old. Will this work for my family?
These tools are designed to fit and meet the needs of strong-willed kids who are between the ages of 4-12 years old but they can be adapted for teens as well.
Question 6: How long do I have access to the program and when does it start?
You will have 24/7 lifetime access to the self-paced course and you can start it immediately once purchased. There are six bite-sized video lessons with PDF cheatsheets. You can get through the entire course in less than two hours!
Question 7: I haven't ever taken a parenting class before, will this work for me?
Yes! This course is designed to work for ALL SKILL LEVELS. You don't need any prior experience for these tools to work for you and your family.
Question 8: What makes this course different from other parenting courses?
Many parenting courses out there have a lot of fluff with no real practical hands-on tools you can implement immediately. The Defiance Disarming Toolkit is designed to address the root cause of misbehavior while helping parents build long lasting skills quickly and easily. You will have a proven framework and tools that can grow with your kid and adapt as they get older while giving you the skills you need so you can improve your connection, confidence and cooperation with your strong-willed kid.
Question 9: My kid has been diagnosed with ODD and ADHD. Will this work for our family?
Great question! Yes, this program is designed to work WITH strong-willed defiant kids by addressing their core needs to feel seen, heard and understood. Once you learn what drives defiance and learn skills to address it in non-threatening ways, oftentimes the defiant behavior subsides naturally. These tools are neurodivergent friendly and trauma-informed.
Question 10: I want to sign up, but I don't know which package is right for me. Is there a trial I can try?
I offer a 30 day money back guarantee so you can get a 100% refund if the program isn't right for you. If you still have questions, you can email me at [email protected]. Hope to see you in the group!
